Why Are You Scared of Me?

As a child I knew I was

good,

adorable,

and safe.

Because that was what my parents told me,

that was what my grandma told me,

that was what my physical therapist told me,

that was what my teachers told me.

So I believed it.

I rolled around in my power wheelchair with my head held high

and knew I was God’s child blessed with promise.

But the vision that I had of myself

was not always reflected back in the eyes of others.

From an early age people used to stare at me

and bore their eyes in the back of my skull,

like I was some freak,

some monster who face is too grotesque to look at.

I grew up with kids who gawk at

My gangly limbs squirming in my chair

With an unease that never went away.

Kids taunts taught lessons

of how I was out of place in their space.

Malicious words sprung off their tongues

and crashed into my ear drums

with their hate and indifference.

Why you fear me?

Why you freak out whenever I am around?

What is it about the sight of me that makes you cringe?

Is it because when you look at me you see

a reminder of your own fragility?

The fact that one day your body will go weak

and die decomposing into dust.

Or do you fear me for my skin?

The smooth maroon in encasing of my body,

illicit fears that I might kick you,

hit you,

roll over you in my wheelchair.

Am I that nappy headed criminal

that makes you clutch your purse

as you walk pass me?

Do you secretly wish that a police officer

come and bust in my head and take me to jail,

Or better yet put a bullet in my heart

to stop the enraged monster you see me as?

Or do you see me as a freak?

A monster whose body

medicine cannot fix.

Whose body cannot be loved,

cannot be sexually desired.

Cannot provide a woman

with her physical,

emotional,

spiritual,

and sexual needs.

Why does a woman emasculate me

with her gaze?

Do you see my body as only acceptable if rehabilitated?

If I work on a surgical or therapeutic way to fix me

Then you will embrace me with open arms

because then I will be just like you.

That may look like a happy ending to you,

but you will never know why you are really scared of me.

Source: Zoeglossia: Poem of the Week, Aug. 6, 2020 (Zoeglossia)

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