No Epitaph
By Donald Davie
No moss nor mottle stains
My parents’ unmarked grave;
My word on them remains
Stouter than stone, you told me.
“Martyred to words”, you have thought,
Should be your epitaph;
At other times you fought
My self-reproaches down.
Though bitterly once or twice
You have reproached me with how
Everything ended in words,
We both know better now:
You understand, I shall not
If I survive you care
To raise a headstone for
You I have carved on air.
Copyright Credit: Donald Davie, "No Epitaph" from Selected Poems. Copyright © 1985 by Donald Davie. Reprinted by permission of Carcanet Press, Ltd.
Source: Selected Poems (Carcanet Press Ltd, 1985)